We investigate the effect of charge self-consistency (CSC) in density functional theory plus dynamical mean-field theory (DFT+DMFT) calculations compared to simpler one-shot calculations for materials where interaction effects lead to a strong redistribution of electronic charges between different orbitals or between different sites. We focus on two systems close to a metal-insulator transition, for which the importance of CSC is currently not well understood. Specifically, we analyze the strain-related orbital polarization in the correlated metal CaVO$_3$ and the spontaneous electronic charge disproportionation in the rare-earth nickelate LuNiO$_3$. In both cases, we find that the CSC treatment reduces the charge redistribution compared to cheaper one-shot calculations. However, while the MIT in CaVO$_3$ is only slightly shifted due to the reduced orbital polarization, the effect of the site polarization on the MIT in LuNiO$_3$ is more subtle. Furthermore, we highlight the role of the double-counting correction in CSC calculations containing different inequivalent sites.