Controlling the forbidden gap of graphene nano-ribbons (GNR) is a major challenge that has to be attained if this attractive material has to be used in micro- and nano-electronics. Using an unambiguous notation {m,n}-GNR, where m (n) is the number of six carbon rings in the arm-chair (zig-zag) directions, we investigate how varies the HOMO-LUMO gap when the size of the GNR is varied by increasing either m or n, while keeping the other variable fixed. It is shown that no matter whether charge- or spin-density-waves solutions are considered, the gap varies smoothly when n is kept fixed whereas it oscillates when the opposite is done, posing serious difficulties to the control of the gap. It is argued that the origin of this behavior is the fact that excess or defect charges or magnetic moments are mostly localized at zig-zag edges.