Phase change memory (PCM) is one of the leading candidates for neuromorphic hardware and has recently matured as a storage class memory. Yet, energy and power consumption remain key challenges for this technology because part of the PCM device must be self-heated to its melting temperature during reset. Here, we show that this reset energy can be reduced by nearly two orders of magnitude by minimizing the pulse width. We utilize a high-speed measurement setup to probe the energy consumption in PCM cells with varying pulse width (0.3 to 40 nanoseconds) and uncover the power dissipation dynamics. A key finding is that the switching power (P) remains unchanged for pulses wider than a short thermal time constant of the PCM ($tau$$_t$$_h$ < 1 ns in 50 nm diameter device), resulting in a decrease of energy (E=P$tau$) as the pulse width $tau$ is reduced in that range. In other words, thermal confinement during short pulses is achieved by limiting the heat diffusion time. Our improved programming scheme reduces reset energy density below 0.1 nJ/$mu$m$^2$, over an order of magnitude lower than state-of-the-art PCM, potentially changing the roadmap of future data storage technology and paving the way towards energy-efficient neuromorphic hardware