Recently, Deutsch and Elizalde studied the largest and the smallest fixed points of permutations. Motivated by their work, we consider the analogous problems in weighted set partitions. Let $A_{n,k}(mathbf{t})$ denote the total weight of partitions on $[n+1]$ with the largest singleton ${k+1}$. In this paper, explicit formulas for $A_{n,k}(mathbf{t})$ and many combinatorial identities involving $A_{n,k}(mathbf{t})$ are obtained by umbral operators and combinatorial methods. As applications, we investigate three special cases such as permutations, involutions and labeled forests. Particularly in the permutation case, we derive a surprising identity analogous to the Riordan identity related to tree enumerations, namely, begin{eqnarray*} sum_{k=0}^{n}binom{n}{k}D_{k+1}(n+1)^{n-k} &=& n^{n+1}, end{eqnarray*} where $D_{k}$ is the $k$-th derangement number or the number of permutations of ${1,2,dots, k}$ with no fixed points.