Tranquility, stability and psychological calmness is a goal that the marriage contracts aspires to achieve, besides to the goal of founding the first brick in the society including the family and rearing up children. After establishing a family be completing the contract of marriage, the stability of the marital life might be affected if the husband doesn't spend on his wife. In fact it might vanish at all because of what it means of avoiding a necessary duty from the marital duties. However marital life may have a chance to go on and achieve its goals and intentions, even if the husband doesn't spend on his wife, if she spends on herself and doesn't claim for expense , which will not affect on the other party, Knowing that the building of the marital life is built on living and intimacy, which is contradicted to proving the alternative of separation for every emergent event. Avoiding expense is considered a cause of disturbance in marital life which makes it not obligatory for the other party to continue living like this after it is confirmed by law. The integrity of psychological stability in general doesn't contradict with the tracing and stipulating making the safety procedures in offering its due procedures by outweighing the choice of separation though the litigation procedures.