The research aims to : Definition of the forms of parental treatment most commonly from the viewpoint of students and its relationship with some personal variables, and know significance of differences between the forms of parental treatment from the viewpoint of outstanding students depending on the variables (sex - the educational level of the parents - the income level of the family - and the social status of the family arranged between members of the family) . The study relied on the curriculum (descriptive) due to its suitability to the nature of the current study and its objectives, the researcher used the questionnaire method as an essential tool for data collection, and the basis for the opinions and trends of the research sample where included (3) axes related forms of parental treatment and its impact on the performance of students as follows (democratic method Anarchist method authoritarian method). And applied research tool on a sample intended outstanding students (male and female) of secondary education, third grade secondary totaling (105) students (male and female)whose excelling academically rate (100%) of the original community (27) of them male rate (25.7%) of original society, and (78) of the female rate (74.3%) of the original society, where it was the selection of a sample of unintended outstanding students excelling in school being the only one in the city of Damascus .