We present detailed multiwavelength follow up of a nuclear radio flare, VT J154843.06+220812.6, hereafter VT J1548. VT J1548 was selected as a ${sim}1$ mJy radio flare in 3 GHz observations from the VLA Sky Survey (VLASS). It is located in the nucleus of a low mass ($log M_{rm BH}/M_odot sim6$) host galaxy with weak or no past AGN activity. VT J1548 is associated with a slow rising (multiple year), bright mid IR flare in the WISE survey, peaking at ${sim}10%L_{rm edd.}$. No associated optical transient is detected, although we cannot rule out a short, early optical flare given the limited data available. Constant late time (${sim}3$ years post-flare) X-ray emission is detected at ${sim}10^{42}$ erg s$^{-1}$. The radio SED is consistent with synchrotron emission from an outflow incident on an asymmetric medium. A follow-up, optical spectrum shows transient, bright, high-ionization coronal line emission ($[{rm Fe,X}],lambda 6375,[{rm Fe,XI}],lambda 7894,[{rm S,XII}],lambda 7612$). Transient broad H$alpha$ is also detected but without corresponding broad H$beta$ emission, suggesting high nuclear extinction. We interpret this event as either a tidal disruption event or an extreme flare of an active galactic nucleus, in both cases obscured by a dusty torus. Although these individual properties have been observed in previous transients, the combination is unprecedented. This event highlights the importance of searches across all wave bands for assembling a sample of nuclear flares that spans the range of observable properties and possible triggers.