A pair of flat parallel surfaces, each freely diffusing along the direction of their separation, will eventually come into contact. If the shapes of these surfaces also fluctuate, then contact will occur when their centers of mass remain separated by a nonzero distance $ell$. Here we examine the statistics of $ell$ at the time of first contact for surfaces that evolve in time according to the Edwards-Wilkinson equation. We present a general approach to calculate its probability distribution and determine how its most likely value $ell^*$ depends on the surfaces lateral size $L$. We are motivated by an interest in the motion of interfaces between two phases at conditions of thermodynamic coexistence, and in particular the annihilation of domain wall pairs under periodic boundary conditions. Computer simulations of this scenario verify the predicted scaling behavior in two and three dimensions. In the latter case, slow growth where $ell^ast$ is an algebraic function of $log L$ implies that slab-shaped domains remain topologically intact until $ell$ becomes very small, contradicting expectations from equilibrium thermodynamics.