Although aqueous electrolytes are among the most important solutions, the molecular simulation of their intertwined properties of chemical potentials, solubility and activity coefficients has remained a challenging problem, and has attracted considerable recent interest. In this perspectives review, we focus on the simplest case of aqueous sodium chloride at ambient conditions and discuss the two main factors that have impeded progress. The first is lack of consensus with respect to the appropriate methodology for force field (FF) development. We examine how most commonly used FFs have been developed, and emphasize the importance of distinguishing between Training Set Properties used to fit the FF parameters, and Test Set Properties, which are pure predictions of additional properties. The second is disagreement among solubility results obtained, even using identical FFs and thermodynamic conditions. Solubility calculations have been approached using both thermodynamic--based methods and direct molecular dynamics--based methods implementing coexisting solution and solid phases. Although convergence has been very recently achieved among results based on the former approach, there is as yet no general agreement with simulation results based on the latter methodology. We also propose a new method to directly calculate the electrolyte standard chemical potential in the Henry-Law ideality model. We conclude by making recommendations for calculating solubility, chemical potentials and activity coefficients, and outline a potential path for future progress.