Replica Exchange (RE) simulations have emerged as an important algorithmic tool for the molecular sciences. RE simulations involve the concurrent execution of independent simulations which infrequently interact and exchange information. The next set of simulation parameters are based upon the outcome of the exchanges. Typically RE functionality is integrated into the molecular simulation software package. A primary motivation of the tight integration of RE functionality with simulation codes has been performance. This is limiting at multiple levels. First, advances in the RE methodology are tied to the molecular simulation code. Consequently these advances remain confined to the molecular simulation code for which they were developed. Second, it is difficult to extend or experiment with novel RE algorithms, since expertise in the molecular simulation code is typically required. In this paper, we propose the RepEx framework which address these aforementioned shortcomings of existing approaches, while striking the balance between flexibility (any RE scheme) and scalability (tens of thousands of replicas) over a diverse range of platforms. RepEx is designed to use a pilot-job based runtime system and support diverse RE Patterns and Execution Modes. RE Patterns are concerned with synchronization mechanisms in RE simulation, and Execution Modes with spatial and temporal mapping of workload to the CPU cores. We discuss how the design and implementation yield the following primary contributions of the RepEx framework: (i) its ability to support different RE schemes independent of molecular simulation codes, (ii) provide the ability to execute different exchange schemes and replica counts independent of the specific availability of resources, (iii) provide a runtime system that has first-class support for task-level parallelism, and (iv) required scalability along multiple dimensions.