Young stars are formed within dusty discs. The grains in the disc are originally of the same size as interstellar dust. Models predict that these grains will grow in size through coagulation. Observations of the silicate features at micron wavelengths are consistent with growth to micron sizes whereas the slope of the SED at longer wavelengths traces growth up to mm sizes. We here look for a correlation between these two grain growth indicators. A large sample of T-Tauri and Herbig-Ae/Be stars was observed with the Spitzer Space Telescope at 5-13 micron; a subsample was observed at mm wavelengths. We complement this subsample with data from the literature to maximise the overlap between micron and mm observations and search for correlations. Synthetic spectra are produced to determine which processes may produce the dust evolution. Dust disc masses in the range <1 to 7 x 10^-4 MSun are obtained. Most sources have a mm spectral slope consistent with grain growth. There is a tentative correlation between the 10-micron silicate feature and the mm slope of the SED. The observed sources seem to be grouped per star-forming region in the micron-vs-mm diagram. The modelling results show that the 10-micron feature becomes flatter and subsequently the mm slope becomes shallower. Grain size distributions shallower than that of the ISM and/or bright central stars are required to explain specific features. Settling of larger grains towards the disc midplane affects the 10-micron feature, but hardly the mm slope. The tentative correlation between the strength of the 10-micron feature and the mm slope suggests that the inner and outer disc evolve simultaneously. Dust with a mass dominated by mm-sized grains is required to explain the shallowest mm slopes. Other processes besides grain growth may also be responsible for the removal of small grains.