We present an analysis of deep WSRT observations of the HI in 33 nearby early-type galaxies selected from a sample studied earlier at optical wavelengths with the SAURON integral-field spectrograph. The sample covers both field environments and the Virgo cluster. Our analysis shows that gas accretion plays a role in the evolution of field early-type galaxies, but less so for those in clusters. For detection limits of a few times 10^6 Msun, HI is detected in about 2/3 of the field galaxies, while <10% of the Virgo objects are detected. In about half of the detections, the HI forms a regularly rotating disc or ring. All HI discs have counterparts of ionised gas and inner HI discs are also detected in molecular gas. The cold ISM is dominated by molecular gas (M_H2/M_HI ~ 10). We conclude that accretion of HI is common for field early-type galaxies, but the amount of material involved is usually small. Cluster galaxies appear not to accrete HI. The few galaxies with a significant young sub-population all have inner gas discs, but for the remaining galaxies there is no trend between stellar population and HI. Some early-type galaxies are very gas rich, but only have an old population. The stellar populations of field galaxies are typically younger than those in Virgo. This is likely related to differences in accretion history. In about 50% of the galaxies we detect a central continuum source. In many objects this emission is from a low-luminosity AGN, in some it is consistent with the observed star formation. Galaxies with HI in the central regions are more likely detected in continuum. This is due to a higher probability for star formation to occur in such galaxies and not to HI-related AGN fuelling. (Abridged)